I’ve discovered that people often believe that awareness can move them forward. It is as though that if they think it, it will happen. This happens especially with really smart people, and also with some with a “new age” inclination. There’s a whole “secret” movement out there that believes that if they think it, and really believe it, it will come true. The “law of attraction” they call it. I don’t think it is true. This is not to disparage awareness. From my own experience, awareness can lead to tremendous amount of growth and movement. But only when it is paired with action. And oftentimes, these actions are unnoticed, small, subconscious actions or choices that move us toward our goals.
I used to work with an audio engineer/entrepreneur – long before I was a consultant and coach. This guy, Chuck, was a good engineer, but he was a great philosopher. We were talking about people who behaved like “a***oles”. He said “People don’t realize that they’re a***oles, because if they did, they wouldn’t BE a***oles!”. Now we all know the select few that are very aware of how they act, and are perfectly content acting that way. But for the most part, he’s right. Once the awareness sets in, they change. Most people don’t want to be perceived negatively. Most people do want to have a positive impact on their world.
So what happens? How do they change? They ACT . They do something different. When we become aware of an unknown truth – about ourselves, our business, and our relationships – we have the choice to take action. It is the ACTION that makes the difference.
I recently decided that I would like to have more individual coaching clients. My consulting business is going well, and I really enjoy coaching. The only way I know to get more clients is to talk to more potential prospects. Awareness: I’d like more coaching clients. Action: Set up a free Business Success group in my area.
I did that, and opened it to “conscious” business owners and managers who had the responsibility of operating successful organizations. “Conscious” meaning operating with some level of consciousness, social and personal responsibility. These are the clients that I would like to attract. I attracted many members right away. In the process, I learned that there was a need for a networking group of a similar nature for people in all kinds of businesses – solopreneurs, freelancers, etc. (awareness). So I formed another group to do just that. (action).
There becomes a cascade of activity, all stemming from a single awareness, as I continue to act on the new awarenesses that come forward. Does it work? These groups, in the first couple of meetings, have delivered a couple of clients and many more prospects. If I had not acted, I’d still be sitting around wishing I had more coaching clients.
Another important component of this process is acceptance. Particularly if you have an awareness that isn’t particularly flattering. Take the a***ole. If someone he trusts tells him that he is acting like a real a***hole, then he must first accept that he is, indeed behaving that way. At first, it is just awareness. Somewhere inside, he probably knows that he’s doing it, but he doesn’t have the skills to face it without someone calling him on it. If he is in judgment and upset, or even denial about the awareness, then he can’t take a clear action. He must first come into acceptance of the facts. “Yep, I’ve been acting like a real jerk.” Then he can take clear action. That will lead him to success.
Of course, not all actions lead to success. But I can guarantee you that inaction leads nowhere.
What awareness have you had today that you have yet to take action on? Pick one, and go for it! Experience that success. Let me know what happens.
Jeff Youngs helps companies and individuals take action as a consultant, coach, speaker and author. Check out his website at www.youngscom.com and blog at www.youngscom.wordpress.com . He welcomes your thoughts, comments and suggestions. Email him at jeff@youngscom.com.





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